Sunday, June 22, 2008
what is a family?
what does a family mean?
who has the right to judge weather some1 treats u as a family?
i can tell u seriously a family is ppl who are always there to suggest answers to problems and care for u.. care as in wanting to know what u do and what u are goin to do.. it may sound like nagging but seriously it is care and concern.. if you are goin to block every of mum's qns and say "i dun know " u seriously dun really bother abt us or dun treat us as ur family.. i dun even think u treat us as a family.. u always order mum to do this and that w/o a reason..
selfish is not part of a family and every1 does it without qns asked but u are very very selfish.. everything help me leh help me leh.. everything including making bread it is done by my mum.. coz she loves you and want u to open up to us.. but it seems it always backfire and it seems that u are evading her qns.. but i really can hand it to ma.. she does things w/o asking anything in return for u.. when it comes to ironing your cloths and ur chocolate loti.. she does it happily.. mum is not ur servent ok??
but u would rather ask ppl to do things than do it yourself at home.. ppl just give in to u coz u are young but i feel it has been the main reason u are spoilt and selfish.. we scold u because we want u to learn to be more open to helping others but it seems u give the same reason all the time.. "we dun treat u as family".. but who dun treat us all as family?? its been 16yrs already and i think its time for u to learn some family values so im not goin to back down anymore giving a reason that u are young..
no more excuses of being young and this canot that canot.. gosh its not the 1st time im giving this reason and i have been giving this excuse to many ppl this yr.. does age limit the things we do in daily life?? or is it we are too lazy n selfish to do things ourselves and push the responsibility to others?
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